The Age Old Question: Where Is God When It Hurts by “Brother Bill”
OVER-COMER’S GUIDE: SOOO, AS PHILLIP YANCY ASKED AFTER He had broken his neck – as I had done: “Where is God when it hurts?”
Sooo, as I fight through my lord, I must say: nothing focused my mind like my upcoming surgical execution. It focused me on what is imperative and what’s just impending noise.
Sooo, this may have been my most profound and deeply personal journey. It was one that many people grapple with during times of suffering, loss, or hardship.
Following are some perspectives that might help if you find yourself needing to explore the question per “Where Is God When It Hurts?
1. **Theological Perspective**: The Word of God teaches that God is present with us in our suffering. In Christianity, for example, the concept of the suffering servant, as seen in the life of Jesus, illustrates that God understands human pain and suffering. God accompanies us in our struggles, offering comfort and strength.
. **Theological Perspective: God’s Presence in Suffering**
– **Psalm 34:18**: “The Lord is near to those who have a broken heart, And saves such as have a contrite spirit.”
– **Isaiah 41:10**: “Fear not, for I am with you; Be not dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you, Yes, I will help you, I will uphold you with My righteous right hand.”
2. **The Nature of Suffering**: Some philosophical and theological discussions suggest that suffering is a part of the human experience. It leads to growth, empathy, and a deeper understanding of life. In this view, God may not remove suffering, but provides the tools and support to endure and learn from it.
God said to Paul: “My grace is sufficient for you.” (2 Corinthians 12:9)
– **Romans 5:3-5**: “And not only that, but we also glory in tribulations, knowing that tribulation produces perseverance; and perseverance, character; and character, hope. Now hope does not disappoint, because the love of God has been poured out in our hearts by the Holy Spirit who was given to us.”
– **James 1:2-4**: “My brethren, count it all joy when you fall into various trials, knowing that the testing of your faith produces patience. But let patience have its perfect work, that you may be perfect and complete, lacking nothing.”
3. **Community and Support**: Often, people find God’s presence through the support of others. Friends, family, and community can be vessels of God’s love and compassion during difficult times. Many find solace in shared experiences and the kindness of those around them.
– **Galatians 6:2**: “Bear one another’s burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ.”
– **2 Corinthians 1:3-4**: “Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of mercies and God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our tribulation, that we may be able to comfort those who are in any trouble.”
4. **Personal Reflection**: In moments of pain, individuals may find themselves questioning their faith or feeling abandoned. This is a natural part of the human experience. Scripture encourages us to express our doubts and feelings to God, calling upon the Holy Spirit while reflecting on these questions leads to a deeper faith.
– **Psalm 13:1-2**: “How long, O Lord? Will You forget me forever? How long will You hide Your face from me? How long shall I take counsel in my soul, Having sorrow in my heart daily? How long will my enemy be exalted over me?”
– **Matthew 27:46**: “And about the ninth hour Jesus cried out with a loud voice, saying, ‘Eli, Eli, lama sabachthani?’ that is, “My God, My God, why have You forsaken Me?”
5. **Mystery of God**: Scripture tells us that the ways of God are beyond human understanding. In times of suffering, it may feel as though God is distant, but scripture confirms that God is always present, even if not immediately visible or understandable.
– **Isaiah 55:8-9**: “For My thoughts are not your thoughts, Nor are your ways My ways,’ says the Lord. ‘For as the heavens are higher than the earth, So are My ways higher than your ways, And My thoughts than your thoughts.'”
– **Job 38:1-2**: “Then the Lord answered Job out of the whirlwind, and said: ‘Who is this who darkens counsel by words without knowledge?'”
6. **Hope and Healing**: We find that, over time, healing comes, and we can see how these experiences of pain have shaped us. This journey can lead to a renewed sense of purpose and connection to God.
– **Jeremiah 29:11**: “For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says the Lord, thoughts of peace and not of evil, to give you a future and a hope.”
– **Revelation 21:4**: “And God will wipe away every tear from their eyes; there shall be no more death, nor sorrow, nor crying. There shall be no more pain, for the former things have passed away.”
Ultimately, the question of where God is in our pain can vary greatly from person to person based upon their spiritual maturity. It often involves a journey of exploration, reflection, and, sometimes, struggle. If you or someone you know is grappling with this question, it may be helpful to seek support from a trusted and mature Christian friend, Christian counselor or church leader, who can provide guidance and understanding.
These verses can provide comfort and insight into the nature of suffering and God’s presence during difficult times. They reflect the themes of hope, community, and the understanding that God is with us even in our darkest moments.
Sooo, when you think you’re alone you’re not; as I have found, people, specifically true believers are vary helpful when we need it the most. They open doors, help us up, and fulfill our needs in a meaningful way when we can’t any longer compete in the rat race.
Blessings to all who help in our time of need starting with my Lord Jesus Christ, Hebrews 4:16.
Sooo even now I say in as much as it’s in your power be at peace with all people and leave them better than you found them.
Caring safe journey “brother bill”
About the Author
Mychal Massie
Mychal S. Massie is an ordained minister who spent 13 years in full-time Christian Ministry. Today he serves as founder and Chairman of the Racial Policy Center (RPC), a think tank he officially founded in September 2015. RPC advocates for a colorblind society. He was founder and president of the non-profit “In His Name Ministries.” He is the former National Chairman of a conservative Capitol Hill think tank; and a former member of the think tank National Center for Public Policy Research. Read entire bio here